I got a new job. Let me tell y'all about how it all went down. Let me tell y'all about how I'm sitting at work thinking about the risks I took and will have to take.
Guise. Take risks. Take all the risks, within reason.
In June I got a car. No, I didn't wake up and say, "Man, I need me a car." For a couple of months I had been talking about it. For a couple of weeks I was looking for a job. Every job I was confident in required me to have a car. Every job. I refused to go backwards sooooo I got a car. Happy Birthday to me!
So here I am, applying for jobs and then bam! I get a phone interview… on my birthday of all days. I'm psyched. I'm like bam, bam, bam!
The week I got back from New Orleans I had an in person interview. A week or two later I shadowed.
Y'all, I basically had the job.
But I had no idea there would be a waiting game.
I had to go through a background check and reference check. Easier said than done. The background was quick. The reference wasn't. There was miscommunication with who to contact and when. I was in limbo for almost a month.
All the while I'm wondering if I should just apply somewhere else.
So I had a rough day at work (the old gig) and took a day off. It was just before my "weekend" so it set me up to have three days off instead of two. Well I ended up taking an additional day off because I just… couldn't.
Y'all, it's totally acceptable to take a mental health day. It may not be universally accepted in the United States or within your company, but mental health is important.
Anyway, I returned and was called into the office for a meeting with my boss. She thought I had abandoned my job. She put me in the category of everyone else who says they aren't that person. I've never given her a reason to think I was.
So I sat there faced with the decision to put in my two weeks. I hadn't received the job offer I was waiting on, but I knew I pretty much had it.
So I took another risk. I put in my two weeks.
I walked out of there so confident. I was thinking about how I'm not appreciated. I was thinking about how I work in social services and it's a problem that I called off to take care of my mental health. I was thinking about my worth.
I was confident as hell!
So I went home and continued to float on this cloud.
The next morning I woke up freaking out! Why would I do that? Yeah I know my worth and all that jazz but what about my bills? I had just got a car. Rent was due. I filled out about eleven applications that day.
I was hounding the human resource department about the process and going back and forth with them with references and contact details. I was put in contact with the head of HR and was told that she would personally look at things.
A week later, a week before my last week, I received a call with an official job offer.
I was excited and relieved! In the back of my mind I knew I had the job. I had known it since the first interview. But to have confirmation is what I needed.
I took two major risks over the last two months and feel great about them. I have to keep reminding myself that you can't just sit back and wait for life to happen, you have to make it happen. Sometimes, as much as you want to plan, you just need to do. I'm learning.
So I say with confidence, take risks! Now, don't go out there and go crazy with it. Take risks within your means. Understand your situation. Understand what you need and want and what needs to happen for it to all come together.
You got this!